“What we’re you thinking?!!”
“Why did you do that?!”
“You didn’t do what I asked!”

What if you’re unconsciously shaming your teen in your loving efforts to raise a good human?

Shame can be subtle or overt and your teen might be perceiving your well-intended correction as shame that has a negative impact on their self confidence and resilience. Over time, you try harder and harder to motivate them into action yet they try less and less.

In this video I’ll explain:
1) my definition of shame and how it likely shaped some of your childhood
2) 3 ways shaming might be showing up in your parenting
3) the one proven strategy (and script) to reduce shame and raise a confident, resilient adult

Before you go shaming yourself for not knowing this or getting it wrong…. ! Change begins with awareness so watch this video with compassion and post your comments below ⬇️

You’re already a good parent and learning only makes you better

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